{"id":1174,"date":"2012-10-15T21:11:32","date_gmt":"2012-10-15T21:11:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/?p=1174"},"modified":"2012-10-16T00:39:52","modified_gmt":"2012-10-16T00:39:52","slug":"jay-manicure-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/?p=1174","title":{"rendered":"Jay Gets a Manicure — Part 2??"},"content":{"rendered":"

Back in 2009, I wrote a blog post on my first and what I said would be my last experience with getting a manicure.\u00a0\u00a0 If you missed it,\u00a0\u00a0 here it is:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ladies, Is a guy with manicured nails a turn on, turn off, or makes no difference at all?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I am still a little stuck being traditional in certain areas (eg women wear earrings and get manicures, spend more; time getting ready than guys etc).\u00a0 The Metrosexual phase just never did it for me. That being said, I have heard some guys talk about getting their nails done, and have had some female friends (some reading this right now), saying how great it feels to get a manicure and that I should get one. Since I have never had one in my life, I was a little curious to try it.\u00a0 Over time, I would pass by the salon, look in and see a bunch of women getting nails done, and could not get myself to go in.<\/p>\n

Well a few days ago, I passed by the salon and it was completely empty, so I went in. The woman was nice and tried to make small talk, although I really couldn’t understand her. (She kept saying Korea, my country, mucho money, dating, and get married.\u00a0 I think she either wanted
\nme to go to Korea to start a speed dating company or wanted to get married).<\/p>\n

Twenty minutes later she finished my nails and told me to sit in another chair.\u00a0 Next thing I knew, she was doing my feet.\u00a0\u00a0 Another woman came out of the back room and and then Mr. Kim entered the salon with a bag full of products.\u00a0 I think he was trying to sell me some imported cologne, but can not be 100% sure.\u00a0 The three of them started talking and laughing for the next 10 minutes until I was finished.\u00a0 This made me feel uncomfortable since I did not know what they were saying.Have you seen the episode<\/a> from Seinfeld where Elaine gets her nails done and suspects people are talking about her?<\/p>\n

After I left the salon, I noticed my nails and toenails were shining in the sun.\u00a0 This just didn’t seem right to me. My nails looked good, but guys are not supposed to have shiny nails!!\u00a0 Ok, Ok, I know I am in that traditional mindset, but I didn’t like it.\u00a0 I spent the next two days trying to get rid of the shine with nail polish remover after asking female friends for help, but it didn’t work.\u00a0 Finally after the advice of my dentist (a guy with daughters), I bought the right stuff (special pads) to kill the shine.<\/p>\n

So, my days for now of getting manicures\/pedicures are over.\u00a0 I am curious though as to whether women find a guy with shiny manicured nails attractive, and then maybe I would reconsider.<\/p>\n

Much thanks
\nJay<\/p>\n

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\nFAST FORWARD TO 2012<\/strong><\/p>\n

So after that experience I was done…. that is until about 6 months ago.\u00a0 Never knew they existed, but there is a place in Huntington called CLEAVERZ<\/a>,\u00a0 that is a barber shop\/salon that caters to MEN ONLY.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 I must admit I was a little embarrassed the first time I called to inquire about the services not traditionally offered at a regular barber shop.\u00a0 I took the plunge and said give me the works.\u00a0 Besides getting the regular haircut, I ended up getting the barber shave where they also massage your neck, the barber facial (in a separate room) which they said would be addicting and they weren’t lying, and the manicure.
\nSix months later, I still find myself looking forward to going once a month and relaxing.. I still consider myself the furthest thing from a metrosexual, but curious as to what the ladies think about guys who “take care of themselves.”<\/p>\n

Here are a few comments from a few years back:<\/p>\n

Elaina<\/strong>: “Hi Jay. I’m with you, I don’t think manicured nails on a guy looks right. I definately don’t find the metrosexual thing a turn on! Clean hands and nails yes, but you should have skipped the polish!! I used to fee the same way as you, like in the Elaine episode and not knowing if they were talking and laughing about you. Now I go somewhere where they speak mostly English….lol Elaina : )”<\/p>\n

Anon said<\/strong> ” Jay–trust me, that’s the least of your worries…shiny fingernails and toes? I, along with probably 90% of normal, attractive and put together females in the dating pool these days have a preference for a man that is well groomed, and takes the time and effort to present well rather than show up with dirty finger nails, unshaven, and with a ragged old shirt on. When it comes to dating, women like to see and know that the man sitting in front of them took the effort to make a lasting favorable impression, and didn’t just fall out of their beach chair – to meet us. The last guy I decided to drop-couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t get too close…he looked like Grizzly Adams! Didn’t shave in over a month…wore an old ripped t-shirt you would see someone washing a car with! LOL…”<\/p>\n

WHAT DO YOU THINK?\u00a0 COMMENT BELOW<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Back in 2009, I wrote a blog post on my first and what I said would be my last experience with getting a manicure.\u00a0\u00a0 If you missed it,\u00a0\u00a0 here it is: Ladies, Is a guy with manicured nails a turn on, turn off, or makes no difference at all? I am still a little stuck […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1174","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1174","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1174"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1174\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1181,"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1174\/revisions\/1181"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1174"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1174"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/blog.weekenddating.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1174"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}