Too Much, Too soon, Too Fast? Chuck is a very “nice guy” (ut oh, the killer words) who wants to be in a serious relationship. He meets Mary at an event and they really seem to hit it off. Afterwards, they are dancing a little and I see them start to kiss. Ok, so far, […]
Ok, well this actually was not supposed to be in this weeks newsletter, but my upstairs neighbors are at it again while I am working on this, so why not. Yes, I admit at first it was kind of interesting, but now it is getting to the point of being seriously annoying and actually destructive. […]
Last week I reported about my experiences with personal ads and why it is difficult for men to get responses. Some ideas were provided to the ladies about how to sift through the emails you get. As part of my research, I went directly to the source and asked women what they look for in […]
Personal Ads: A few months ago, I put up a profile on a few personal ad sites. Why? Two reasons; one because I am also single (ok, no comments from the peanut gallery on that one) and secondly for a little competitive intelligence. Disclaimer: Yes, speed dating does work. 40+ happily engaged couples so far 🙂 […]
New York Speed Dating Dating can be a lot of fun, but can also be extremely frustrating. It is that whole getting to know you phase, where you are trying to figure out more about the other person. Will this just be a friend? a lover? Or maybe relationship material? The problem is that most […]
Part II- The event Our first Double speed dating event was held in July, 2004. From 6:45 PM- 7:30PM, we had a pre-event for ladies only with a complimentary buffett sponsored by Island Plastic Surgery. Initially I thought a lot of women would be coming in pairs, but surprisingly about 70% of the female participants […]
Part I Two women, and one man. No, it’s not at all what you may be thinking so get your mind out of the gutter, lol. This was simply a creative solution meant to address a shortage of single men in their 40’s and 50’s. Here is the story: When Long Island Speed Dating (currently […]
Long Island Speed Dating, Long Island Dating, Long Island Single. Why is so difficult to find the right one for you. For starters, men have a hard time figuring out women, and vice versa. We are just so different with the way we view things. The following are some funny differences highlighted by Matt Groening […]
If you are a guy who wears white tube socks with black shoes, chances are you are still single. Well at least that’s what my female friends tell me. As described in prior articles, Men and Women are very different. Something very minor to a man can be such a major issue to a woman […]
To follow up on our last article titled “Older Women, Younger Men” we interviewed several men and women who attended our Long Island Singles events. The goal was to better understand why the majority of men want to date younger women, while the growing trend is that older women would prefer to date younger men. […]