Breaking up by Text Message or Email
I was chatting with a young lady about her recent date and the conversation started out very positive. “Oh, he was great. We went out to dinner and had a fantastic time. I was looking forward to seeing him again, but then I got an email the next day. He said he enjoyed our date, but did not feel any chemistry. Oh well.”
So what do you think about breaking up with someone via text or email? Has it happened to you? Have you done it to someone else?
About a week ago my boyfriend of a year and a half sent me a text out of the blue that he was breaking up with me. It came as a complete shock because we had such a good relationship and always got along. Never argued or anything. Then I wake up one morning and read that text. We talked about living together and going to music school together. Then he turned his phone off so I couldn't get a hold of him. I really loved him lots and felt that he really cared enough about me to not do something like that but at least talk to me about it. He was such a nice guy and I really felt I lost something great. That was the first thing he ever did that truly hurt me. I really just don't understand at all! We were so good and perfect together!
I dated a man for eight years, and worked for the same company but in different locations.. we wrote to each other email at work and met when we had our days off and as much we could.. i than moved away due to a job relocation and we stayed in contact by texting, emailing company email, and yahoo. he came to see me here, i would fly too. well one day after eight years he asked if like take a vacation with him alone no kids, no friends bothering us.. he pay for the flight i could pay for food and entertainment. i said cool. made the arrangments. when I flew to meet with him, he not show up. I got so angry.. i flew to his town. and met with him. he did not have the courage to apologize and to tell me why he did what he did. i than flew back to my new city.. and kept asking through text why he did what he did. he one day just started calling me ugly names, than he was speaking in third person. that he was not he, he was speaking for someone else. called me names, than he just broke up.. and never gave me closure, and on top of that. he got me fired because he wouldnt stop emailing me at work and insulting me for no reason. my managers read those emails. and fired me. because felt it was not right to use company emails for that purpose. they wouldnt fire him, he worked same company.. yet fired me.. he is disgusting. rude, immature, and i will get him back for that.. i will see how to get him in trouble. what goes around comes around.
I have been seeing a guy for about 3 months, during which time we never hung out at his place. I asked about this several times, and he finally blurted out an address which Mapquest and Google stated does not exist. I later found out that he was not who he said he was, operating under a different name, and naturally I was upset that I had been duped by a guy that I really, really liked. I basically sent him a text statiing that I was on to him and that I knew his real name. Now he wants to talk to me about it, but what can be said, he's an impostor. I cannot deal with a liar. In this case, I feel the text breakup was warranted.