I will call you soon…
What does the phrase “I will call you soon” mean when it comes to dating.
This was the topic of a story that came up at our defensive driving singles class. I mentioned a few weeks ago that when a man hears “You are a really nice guy”, we know the end is near.
From listening to the story at the driving class, apparently the phrase “I will call you soon” signals that the end is near for a woman. So the bottom line question raised was “Why does a man say he will call you when he has absolutely no intention of calling?”
I too exchanged phone numbers with a guy and was told I'll call you.
That was 2 nites ago, I've left a few messages with him, like why did you get my number and not call, then I said, I think you're full of it (he's a New Yorker) and one day you will meet your match and she won't call you.
I also said, this feels like being back in high school. Then I said, I was so pissed that I cleaned my apt. and did the litter and I thanked him for it since I hate to do those things – frustration over these dumb no calls can be productive, now I have a clean apt.
I just get tired of mind games,
come on guys, try to be truthful or just don't say you will call, thanks for letting me vent.
It's tough being back in the dating world after you're 53 and was married for 25 years and it ended with adultry. I guess I'm super sensitive so I need to harden up.
Thanks for all the comments, I'm sorry I'm not alone everyone since it happens to guys too.
Good discussion all.