Smoker– Dealbreaker or not??
So what do you think about dating a smoker?
Personally, I am a non smoker and have never picked up a cig in my life. I owe it all to Sue from Franklin Square. I was a bit of a late bloomer and
Oh sh**, just remembered that I am friends with my mom on Facebook and she will see this, so lets skip the personal story that happened last week. Sorry Mom and all of moms friends who snoop on my page 🙂
Anyway, curious to know what experiences all of you non smokers have had with dating a smoker? Or would you even date a smoker in the first place? Have any of you ended a relationship because of the other persons smoking habits, or never got into the relationship in the first place because of it.
Lets hear it!
I can not stand the smell of cigarettes on a woman’s breath. Nasty Nasty Nasty!
However, I did meet someone who was a smoker and tried to see if I could deal with it. Every time it came time to kiss her, I would get grossed out about having my tongue in her mouth. Her lips I could deal with as long as I held my breathe, but not more.
So I ended it. I really liked her too, but could not deal.
Funny this topic just came up, cause I’m dealing with this now. Smoking has always been a dealbreaker for me, but my new guy is a smoker. Thankfully not a heavy smoker, but it’s still disgusting. He’s trying to quit, and in the meantime we’re trying to work around it. Everything else is pretty great, so in the grand scheme of things, as long as he’s willing to freshen up his breath for me, I can’t really complain. Especially since I knew what I was signing up for.
My ex and I were together for five years and she was a pretty heavy smoker. Was never a problem for me. I myself do not smoke cigarettes but do enjoy Cigars. Of all the potential “deal breaking” issues this always seemed to be the most silly to me. But to each their own.