She was stroking the stem of the Martini Glass
A female friend from out of town came to visit me at one of my events recently. Actually she was someone I met at my very first event back in 2003, but had since moved away.  She is the complete package and a total knockout. Story of my life though.. I got caught in the friend zone. We will talk about that in another blog.
Anyway, while I was doing my thing, she was talking to a few people at the bar and had a martini in her hand. I couldn’t help but notice that she was stroking the stem of the glass up and down continuously with her napkin.
Ok, I may look sweet and innocent, but I am still a guy and had all the naughty thoughts going on. Hmm, I said to myself… maybe she likes this guy…or maybe it’s been a while and.. well… you figure it out.
I had always been super attracted to this woman, but like I said… we were “friends”, but hey a guy still has to wonder.
We have talked about all kinds of things, so the next day I asked her about the stroking of the martini glass up and down and whether she liked the guy she was talking to.
She started laughing and was pretty shocked that I noticed that and replied “their was condensation on the stem of the glass, so I was trying to keep my hands from getting sticky.”
Where is the manual on understanding body language? Any good books you can suggest??? Although the same body language signs can mean something totally different depending on the woman.
A few weeks ago I wrote about a date I went on where at the end of the night, the woman offered me a piece of gum and took a piece of gum herself.  Read the story here. How did I interpret it?? Good sign, get ready for the possible kiss. Hmm, maybe not.
Guys, another supposed sign of interest is when a woman plays with her hair while talking to you.  Hmm, maybe.. maybe not.
So ladies…. what are you signs that you give off that lets a guy know you are interested….
I tend to give some light touches, if I’m able. Like a brush of the chest while sharing a little joke.
I actually play with hair often when talking to other men and women (and definitely not into the female experience at all!)–I am very much a heterosexual. I don’t believe I am giving off any particular signals when doing that. Maybe it’s subconscious? who knows. All I know–is if I am interested–a man will not need to wonder – or read between the lines or look for signals. I should try that next time…stroking the stem of a martini glass…would that work with a wine glass?! lol
Yes Liz, same trick works with a wine glass, lol
I tend to have more direct eye contact and also light physical contact (a touch on the hand or shoulder)