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Article written by David Wygant

Ok so you meet someone at the office.

He is good-looking and goes out of his way to talk to you

However, when you are talking to him he is constantly joking and making fun of you.

You think he likes you,  but you’re always the punch line.

Why is that?

Why do guys make fun of the ones they seem to be attracted to?

Simple answers…Men are still boys.  They do not grow up in certain ways.  This makes men cute at times because they act so innocent,  and frustrating other times because umm enough all ready grow up.

Its true women are emotionally older than men.

Because of the difference in emotional age men fall back on making fun of women because they may feel vulnerable.  It is passive aggressive, they like you, but they make fun of you.  It is their way of being vulnerable.  But if he says something mean, put him in his place.  Explain you do not appreciate being made fun of in that manner.  And then tell him something you do like.

Sometime men take teasing too far.  They do not realize when enough is enough.

It would be stereotyping if you would say that no men care about shoes or that all women do.   In general some people look at shoes as a practical necessity while others are obsessed with shoes.  However, most people find themselves somewhere in the middle.

In observing men and their styles, many stick with one type of shoe style.  For example, if a man wears a work boot at their job,  they usually stick with wearing work boots after hours.  Others may stay clear of certain places and events if they have to wear certain shoes.

This may be due to the lack of knowledge to when and where you should wear certain shoes.  Here are some tips for men and their shoes.

General shoe tips for men

1. When choosing  a shoe based on color, either pick one that matches or is darker than your pants
2. Even though it’s a sure thing to wear socks to match your outfit, it is not an absolute necessity.  .  Just make sure that the socks can complement the outfit.
3. If you are wearing a solid color belt, try and match your shoes to it.

Tips for men and jeans

1. Avoid shiny shoes (they are meant for dresser outfits).
2. Since most colors and shoes go with jeans, try and match the shoes to the shirt.  For example, if you are wearing a t-shirt go with a sneaker type of shoe or if you are wearing a polo shirt wear a loafer type of shoe.

Tips for men and casual pants

1. Whether you wear Dockers or khakis,  there are tons of loafers or oxfords that compliment casual pants.
2. Work with your shoe.  Choose if you want to be dressier or a little more casual,  then  pick the shoe.

Tips for men and dress pants

1. When wearing dress pants, go for a shoe that you would wear with a suit.

Colors and shoes

–          Black shoes go with : black, grey or navy pants

–          Brown shoes go with : tan, beige, green, brown or other darker earth tones

–          Burgundy shoes go with : khaki, light brown, blue and grey

–          Tan shoes go with : blue, beige, white, lighter tan and lighter earth tone colors

My friend Mark was at Zacharys night club and approached a woman at the bar this past weekend.  He tapped her on the shoulder and she turned around.

Next words out of her mouth were “I am here with my husband and can’t talk to you now.”  She immediately took a guys hand from  a few yards away and walked with him to the dance floor.

Ok, so you are saying so what???  Well… the guy this woman grabbed was an acquantaince friend of Mark, not the woman’s husband.  She had no idea that Mark and this guy knew eachother.

She used the guy as a pawn to get away from Mark.

Ok ladies, fess up.. Have you ever done this, or what other creative excuses have you used to get out of an unwanted conversation.  You can comment Anonymously, , so lets hear it!

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This article is written by Dating Coach David Wygant who coaches women and men:

So the other night I was hanging out with a few friends.

This gal came over and joined the conversation.  She sat down and hung around for a while.

Next thing you know, she takes out her phone and starting showing us pictures.

I said “let me see that phone.”  and she agreed.
Next I said, “Do you dare me to slide over two pics to the right?”

She replied, “No way, there could be something very private.”

So I said,  “Hmm, well that is part of the fun.”

Right then and there, a new game was created.

Smart PhoneTruth or Dare.

So, when you are out and someone takes out their smart phone to show you pics of their cat, fish, dog etc, say to them “I dare you to let me move the pics three to the right or to the left.  You decide. ”

Most everyone has some type of “interesting pics” on their phone, this simple game opens up the conversation!

There you have it.. If you are stuck for a conversation and she/ he shows you pics on their phone, it is time to play “Smart Phone Truth or Dare.”

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This article comes from Kim Sarassin

During your twenties, attraction was the main factor when starting a relationship.  There was no need to worry about what kind of job he had, the amount of money he made, if he was handy around the house or if he was good with kids.  You hit the motherland if he worked or if he even had a car.  Dating in NYC was easier.

Back then friends took precedence in your life and your circle of friends constantly expanded leaving endless possibilities for Long Island Single men to date. 

However, when you reach 40 and are single, priorities shift.  Your new priority is your profession, children (if you have any) and financial stability.  Lives gets in the way and due to your busy schedule friendships diminish weakening your social network and possible suitors. 

Add in the current divorce rate and women find that there is less of a chance to meet men and more single women in the similar age range trying to attract someone.

Although it is not a competition women feel that the sea is over populated and are unsure how to make an impression and making dating pleasurable and effortless.  

So the question is what can you do to increase the probability of attracting a guy?

First you need to do some inner and outer maintenance.  In working with many 40 plus single women I have become a sort of specialist in revamping this group into the dating scene.  Many of the women I have worked with are coming to me from lengthy marriages and are unsure where to start. 

Some of my tips will help you move in the direction and give you a better understanding of how to deal with men.  Some may be obvious, they are common sense and the most important thing is they work.

The first tip is to not split the check on the first date.  When a guy asks to take you out he is assuming he will pay for the date.  He is not assuming you will have to sleep with him or think you are a gold digger or cannot support yourself. 

Secondly, refrain from having sexual relations too early.  You should not feel pressured or feel like you need to have sex in order to be able to continue dating.  Sex too soon can cause women to have unfair expectations of the relationship.  You should allow intimacy and bonds to develop slowly. 

Also, work on your inner self.  If you are still uneasy, mad or upset about past relationships you may want to find someone professional to speak to.  Neglecting your feelings may create undesirable matches and cause difficulty to have success in external actions like single events.

Another tip is to allow outer self to flourish.  Although it is important for a guy to love you for the way you are remember humans are visual beings.  Commit yourself to regular exercise, take regular trips to the hair salon and if need be whiten your teeth- it takes years off of you.

Lastly, know your limitation, have expectations and remain true to them.  Never do something that does not feel right to you.  Women have a predisposition to adapt and alter their lives around their mate’s world.  Keep the relationship balanced by giving and taking.  Avoid dropping everything to suit your man’s needs.  You have needs too. 

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