Guys- You Are Thinking With The Wrong Head
This article is written by Dating Coach David Wygant who coaches women and men:
Why is it that guys think with their penises, rather than using their top head when speaking to attractive ladies?
During a recent workshop in NY, the guys received the following exercise.  If you are single in NYC, please read on.
Michelle, a gorgeous gal was taking part in the seminar and was doing some role playing.Â
The men were given the assignment to try to get her to leave the room with them.
This took part at the very end of the workshop, where the guys already knew a little bit about her.  So they were told to  approach her, and try to get her to leave with em.
Pretty much ever guy, approached using a salesman approach.  They said things like,
“How about you and I check out another place ? I know this really fantastic Italian place.”
“Wow, you look so bored. I can make you laugh.”
“You have that look like something is on your mind and would like to take a walk.”
These guys were coming off as slick salesman mode. The issue is that they did not understand how to be vulnerable, which is what women are interested in.
At the Workshop, Michelle was asked how the men did. She smiled and said, “Every single guy tanked.”
“All of you guys struck out. You were doing pretty good, except on this exercise.  Observe how this can be easy and painless. Â
I approached Michelle and gazed into her eyes. I put my hand out and spoke:
“Michelle, it is time to get out of here.  It is too loud.  I really would like to get to know more about you and talk. Lets go some place a little quieter. Â
Michelle stood up, put her hand out and we left.  Â
That is all there is too it.Â
Ladies do want to see that vulnerable side.  It is important to them that they know you are interested in learning more about them. Â
You really do not require any funny pick up lines or a sales script.  All that you need to do is let them know you would like to get to know them better and actually mean it. Â
If you are interesting in learning how to do this the right way, and be the guy, click here!
Your friend,Â
David
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Not sure I could see this working and would love to know what the women think. I would think the guy might be coming on way to strong by doing what this article says?
I agree with Bob. It’s enough to just say: “this place is too loud, lets go someplace quieter”, but to make that committed announcement “I really would like to get to know more about you and talk.” just sounds creepy and desperate, and unnecessary.
How is that being vulnerable? I agree with Bob, I would never leave with this guy, way too strong. He’s TELLING the woman it’s time to leave. No guy TELLS me what to do.