Do you like “HAIRY” guys
I had a conversation with my friend Amy last week and wanted to get your feedback. We were talking about men, women, being single, turn on’s, turn off’s and the conversation turned to hair.
Jay– Actually, I just got this new shirt. Made sure to trim the chest area to make sure it looks clean
Amy- Why do you trim the chest area? I love it when a guy’s hair is coming out of the top!
Jay- That’s not my style. You are telling me that you like it if a guy has a tree growing out of the top of his shirt?
Amy- Absolutely! It’s hot.. Guys are supposed to be hairy.
Jay– What about a guys back. I suppose you are going to tell me that a guy with a hairy back is also a turn on?
Amy– Well Hello… YES!!
Jay– What?? I may not be an expert on women, but everything I know says that most women like a guy who is kept neat and groomed. I’m not talking metrosexual groomed since that goes too far, but just neat and clean.
Amy- Jay… I don’t know what type of women you have dated, but the hair is a sign of masculinity and the more hair the better!
Jay– Ok, and what about below the equator?
Amy– If I guy trims or shaves down there, he is Out!! I don’t want to feel stubble against me. Let it grow!
Amy– I also love the smell of sweat on a man. It totally gets me going. I love to smell his underarms.
Jay– Once again… thats nasty. You want to sniff a guys armpits after he is sweaty and gross? Amy, I’m telling you… You are an anomaly. I know a lot of women like a “manly man”, but smelling sweaty underarms is nasty.
Jay– Amy… what about if you are getting intimate with a guy? Same deal?? Smelly and Sweaty is a turn on?
Amy– Absolutely. If I had the choice to give my boyfriend a (bleep bleep), I would much rather do it after he has not showered and has a smell… rather than if just came out of the shower.
Jay– Do you mind if I write this up as a blog entry? I need to ask some more ladies what they think about this. I can’t believe that this is the norm.
Amy– Go ahead.. I never really asked any of my female friends about this.. Just figured this is how most women are.
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LOVE a hairy guy. Yes like when your peaks out of the top
of a mans shirt. Don’t agree about the sweaty smell and
sniffing smelly armpits. Sweating during sex absolutely.
I know everyone has their own unique turn-on but I have only one word about this one, yuck!
Jay and Amy, very interesting conversation. In my youth, 1980’s getting lost in ocean of a man’s chest hair was heavenly. Then Male Stripping with the Chippendale’s became popular, who was stripping? A Bunch of drop dead gorgous gay men who were landscaped from head to toes. Only hair was scalp, eyebrows and eye lashes. No ordinary hetero man could compare to them. It really boils down to daily cleansing and eating the same foods, so we don’t notice any horrible odors. A sweaty clean man is a turn on.
There are a lot of pheromones in sweat. I have found myself attracted to a boyfriends sweaty gym shirt. As gross as it sounds I liked the smell. That doesn’t go for any man, just the man I am involved with. That said, when you come home from the gym and are all sweaty, I do not want a hug until you shower 😛
Its kind of funny, I had 2 guys (I vaguely knew) at the gym ask me the same question.
Over all I disagree with Amy. I with the exception of head hair, leg hair, even armpit hair, I think a man should shave. Arms…I can go either way, although I don’t want to feel your stubble when you brush against me lol. Yes, men are supposed to be hairy but too much hair is nasty. Its a huge turn on (to me) if a man to has a clean chest.
I like men with and without hair. But there’s something about a guy with a hairy chest that is very sexy. Hairy back no way. And as for man funk, no way! Nothing worse than stinky wet man pits or jock musk. Ew!