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New Rules for Today’s Pickup Artists (PUA)

From Tesh.com

New Rules for Today’s Pickup Artists

The face of the pickup artist is changing. Until recently, the term ‘pickup artist’ often referred to men who used sleazy pickup lines to seduce women into having one-night stands. Today, it’s more likely to be used to describe men who prefer long-term commitment, and self-improvement over seduction.

That’s the word from Sal Peer, who teaches a course for guys known as “The Speer Method.” He says 95% of his clients are interested in finding “the one.” They just need a little help when it comes to dating and meeting women. That’s why men are willing to pay big bucks to hire dating coaches, or attend “pickup artist seminars.”

So what are men learning at those seminars?

1.Rule #1: Be honest. James Norton is a dating coach who says when you lie to others, it’s usually because you don’t feel worthy of being around them, and that’s not a healthy attitude to have in any relationship.

2.That brings us to Rule #2 for aspiring pickup artists: Be confident. Experts say 90% of attraction between men and women starts with body language. That’s why many seminars teach basic social skills like projecting your voice, listening, and standing up straight. It sounds simple, but Norton says a lot of guys need practice just looking a woman in the eye and smiling.

3.Rule #3: Forget the cheesy pickup lines. Norton says men should have the confidence to go up to any woman and say: “Hello, my name is” without memorizing a line, routine, or gimmick. Because those only relay the message that you’re either fake or creepy.

4.One more rule for today’s pickup artists: MAKE opportunities, don’t WAIT for them. Norton says unless you give women a reason to talk to you, many will just sit and talk with their friends all night. So don’t be afraid to make the first move. As Norton puts it, it’s YOUR social life. So until you break the ice with a direct “hello,” you’ll never know if a woman’s interested.

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