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Why nice guys finish last

This article was written by Carlos Xuma.  It is a little salesy at the end, but has some interesting information that is open for discussion.  What do you think?

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So why do Nice Guys finish last?

Let’s leave women out of this discussion
for a minute. Just for a little bit,
anyway.

Have you ever wondered what it is that a
successful guy has that the “average”
guy doesn’t?

And I’m not talking about the obvious
tangible things, like money, or a nice
car, or a house. Those are not the
cause, they’re the EFFECT.

The personality traits that a dominant
man displays are what give him the
success he enjoys, both psychologically
as well as financially.

Re read that. It’s actually pretty
important.

(And yes, those things – money, car,
house – translate into success with
women, but not in the way that you
think. But wait, I said I was leaving
women out of this for a minute…)

I personally started out very low in the
pecking order. I was what you would have
considered a “Nice Guy.” I was
easygoing. I liked to keep things cool
and mellow. You know, where you can keep
everyone getting along with each other.
I wasn’t very Alpha.

Conflict just makes things more
difficult, right? Then no one has any
fun.

So I became the diplomat. The guy to
keep things running smooth and cool.

The problem is, I started doing this in
all areas of my life. I started avoiding
and de-fusing conflict and confrontation
wherever it came into my world.

I did this in my career, my family, and
most often in my dating life.

I didn’t realize that I was actually
sabotaging myself by trying to AVOID
conflict instead of MANAGING conflict.

If you’re a nice guy, or if you’ve been
one for any period of time, or SUSPECT
you might be, you might be nodding your
head already at what I’m saying. But let
me finish; there’s something else I
think you’ll relate to…

(Now let’s bring women back into the
picture. Forget for a minute that I’m
going to show you a proven method to
improve your life, your career, your
friendships, your prosperity… )

I also discovered that I was a little
bitter. I was angry at all the guys who
seemed to be getting the women I thought
*I* should be getting. I mean, I’m so
much BETTER than these jerks. What do
THEY have that I don’t have?

I got angrier and angrier about this
because I thought I was being ignored,
and these dweebs who didn’t have half
the goods I did were getting the hot
women.

Do you want to know why nice guys finish
last?

Here’s why….

You ready for this?

I’m reminded of Jack Nicholson’s line:
“You can’t handle the truth!”

But I know you can handle this.

Nice guys finish last because …

… we’re not really being “nice.”

It’s true. We’re not as nice as we might
think when we sacrifice our own desires
and needs to accommodate and supplicate
to women. When we try to be “nice” we’re
showing a woman that we don’t have
natural qualities to attract them, and
we’re denying our masculinity.

You see, by being nice, we’re actually
doing the WRONG thing for women.

What Nice Guys have got to do is bring
out this “nice” quality WITH our innate
DOMINANCE.

Women need to see guys who are capable
of being STRONG and protecting them, not
giving up their Alpha Male Power to
women. They have to learn how to mix in
the assertive behaviors that will show
women that we are fit to be their mates.
And this means short term as well as
long term.

Women want STRONG Alpha Men. Guys who
can lead them and protect them.

Don’t make the mistake of believing that
women want jerks. They only desire
certain Alpha qualities the jerk
possesses and that the Nice Guy is
afraid to show.

These Alpha qualities act like a potent
drug on her nervous system, blinding her
(temporarily) to the reality of the
Jerk’s bad influence. Eventually she
finds herself emotionally locked to
someone she doesn’t like, but can’t seem
to get away from.

Ask a drug addict sometime if they like
the drug that addicts them. They’ll tell
you NO, but they can’t stop going back
to it.

Now, there are a lot of dating guides
out there. Dating tips and secrets on
how to entrance and captivate women are
important, but what about improving
yourself WHILE you’re looking to get
women?

Become a better man physically …
mentally … spiritually … financially
… romantically …

What about becoming a guy who knows ALL
the rules of the dating game? And the
game of LIFE?

Let me throw you a quick pop quiz. No
need to get a pen and paper, just nod or
shake your head…

– Do you ever find yourself feeling
nervous and uncertain when you’re around
women? And you don’t want to use stupid
pickup lines that don’t work?

– Do you ever find yourself afraid to
approach a woman because you don’t know
how to handle the situation? (Or because
you’re afraid of her rejection?)

– Do you feel like you don’t have the
assets a woman wants in a man, like
fame, wealth, a nice car, good looks? Do
you ever feel like you need to BUY a
woman’s affections?

– Do you want to build your status and
grow to become more of your potential?

– Have you just started to date after
divorce or a bad breakup? Do you find
yourself reluctant to go out and meet
women, that it’s just too painful to go
through the hassle of dating?

– Do you want to find out more about the
unwritten Laws of Success so you can
apply them to your own life?

– Do you feel like you’re playing a
“dating game” when you try to meet women
to date or just have fun with? And do
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and make all the rules?

– Are you looking to make an investment
in YOURSELF for once, instead of just
throwing your money away on bad dates,
bad investments, and bad decisions?

– Do you ever wish you could meet
beautiful women and feel confident that
you’d succeed with them?

– Do you feel ashamed of your ability to
approach women, and that you don’t know
where to go to get dating tips and help
understanding seduction?

First of all, these feelings are totally
NORMAL. Every guy has had them at one
point or another.

But what will set you apart is what you
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You see, most guys will never learn how
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They may NEVER get to be an Alpha Male.

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One Comment

  1. JoAnn says:

    This is SO true! Women have to be strong in so many ways, they’d like a guy they can trust to carry their share. And FIGHT for them, and for a better future! But most men out there seem to be using all their energy to curse those that are ahead of them, and expect their wives to coddle them & be an extension of their mommy! STOP hating the world. STOP expecting women to ask you out, plan everything, “hang out” instead of “date”. You couldn’t handle 24 hours in our shoes, so what makes you think we’ll have any respect for you if you can’t handle your own?

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